Dating someone with same name as sibling
I know this seems really shallow and possibly pointless, but I have to know if it's just me with this phobia.
I don't think I could be really comfortable dating a girl with the same name. My brother's name is common - and it's the same as my dad's and grandpa's name. Finding a mate is difficult enough without putting such a ridiculous constraint on your dating opportunities.
Sure, I'd try it and give it a good chance, but that particular circumstance hasn't happened yet. Could any of you feel comfortable crying out your lover's name during sex, when that name is that of one of your siblings? I want to think of my partner's name and get excited, be romantic, not think of my sister at that time. But, I don't call my dad or grandpa by that name, and luckily for me I think of my brother by his nickname. On the other hand, two of my sisters have names which have fallen out of favor during my lifetime.
Sister dated a guy with the same name as Brother #1.
I once had a crush on a guy with the same name as Brother #3 but that never went anywhere.
Nah, really not a problem since my brother's name is very common.
It was more of a problem when I dated a guy whose name was identical to mine, save for the last letter. It would probably bother me quite a bit to date someone with my sister's name, especially at first, but I wouldn't rule out dating a girl because of it.
Brother #1, has a son who married a woman with the same name as his sister.
Brother #3 has a son who almost married a girl with the same name as another daughter of Brother #1, not a sibling but a cousin.
One of my sisters has dated three guys with the same first name as my late brother - and married two of them. Both of my sisters have fairly uncommon names, though - I'd really have to work at it.
She named one of her sons "Teejay" (actual legal first name) after his initials. Hell, I don't know if I'd be able to get down with a woman named "Peggy-Sue" even if I didn't have a sister by that name.
My half-sister married a man with the same first name as my older full-brother.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating