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Please give me advice on how to make him understand that this is not him! "There's a fair bit of controversy over whether people can suppress fetishistic desires like this—and whether it's healthy to ask them to do so," said Dr.
David Ley, a clinical psychologist, author, and AASECT-certified sex therapist.
Five months into our relationship (before we got married), he confessed that he was an adult baby. When I asked what the deal was, he told me he wasn't into sex because diapers weren't involved.
"The common misconception with ABDL (adult baby diaper lovers) is that they are into inappropriate things—like having an interest in children—and this couldn't be more wrong," said Pup Jackson, a twentysomething diaper lover and kink educator. Sometimes it's a way for a person to disconnect from their adult life and become someone else.
With DLs, they aren't necessarily into age play—they enjoy diapers and the way they feel, much like people enjoy rubber, Lycra, or other materials.
To understand her husband, MADDL needs to ask questions about why her husband enjoys diapers and figure out how to deal with it—because a lot of people want/need these kinds of outlets in their life." Okay, MADDL, now it's time for me to share my thoughts with you, but—Christ almighty—I hardly know where to begin.
"Great guys" can be into diapers; this is not who your husband "chooses to be," since people don't choose their kinks any more than they choose their sexual orientation; outing your husband to his mother was unforgivable and could ultimately prove to be a fatal-to-your-marriage violation of trust; a counselor isn't going to be able to reach into your husband's head and yank out his kink.
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Chatrandom makes it easy to talk to strangers around the world!Recently I've experimented with long-term edges, where I'll withhold coming for days or weeks while still maintaining a daily masturbation practice.I love living on that horny edge, and I've even learned to love the ache in my balls. Am I setting myself up for prostate/testicular trouble down the road?("I absolutely hate that therapists are seen as sexual enforcers who are supposed to carve away any undesirable sexual interests and make people 'normal,'" said Dr.Ley.) You're clearly not interested in understanding your husband's kink, per Pup Jackson's advice, nor are you open to working out an accommodation that allows your husband to explore his kink on his own, per Dr. Instead you've convinced yourself that if you pitch a big enough fit, your husband will choose a spouse who makes him feel terrible about himself over a kink that gives him pleasure. Your husband told you he was into diapers before he married you—he laid his kink cards on the table at five months, long before you scrambled your DNA together—and he backed down when you freaked out.Priapus Precipice A study conducted by researchers from Boston University School of Public Health and Harvard T. Chan School of Public Health found that men who masturbated at least 21 times per month—masturbated and ejaculated—were at lower risk of developing prostate cancer than men who ejaculated less than 21 times per month ("Ejaculation Frequency and Risk of Prostate Cancer," European Urology).Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating